How to Choose the Right Examples for Your Job Interview. Job Interview Stories (Part 2)

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 In Part 1 of this series, we focused on clarity before confidence - why being clear about your role and value matters more than sounding impressive. If you prefer to listen rather than read, this topic is also discussed in the Business English Talks podcast, where we break down real interview answers and explain why some of them work better than others. In this article, we move to the next step: choosing the right examples. Even professionals with strong experience often struggle in interviews because they talk about the wrong situations - or they choose examples that are too complex, too vague, or not clearly connected to the question. This article will help you choose examples that are: easy to explain, relevant to the role, and effective in real interview situations. Along the way, you’ll find ready-to-use Business English phrases you can apply immediately. Why examples matter more than job titles Interviewers don’t hire job titles. They hire people who can solve problems and ...
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D for Dreams: Turning Small Talk Into Meaningful Conversations (FORD Method for Small Talk Series)

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 Small talk can sometimes feel shallow or repetitive—but it doesn’t have to be. The FORD Method is a powerful tool that helps you guide conversations into more engaging and meaningful territory. It focuses on four easy topics:

  • F – Family
  • O – Occupation
  • R – Recreation
  • D – Dreams

Today, we’re focusing on D for Dreams—the topic that can transform a simple chat into a real connection.



What Does “Dreams” Mean in Small Talk?

In this context, Dreams doesn’t just mean someone’s “biggest life goal” or “wildest fantasy.” It’s about future plans, hopes, and aspirations—big or small.

Dreams could mean:

  • Career ambitions (“I’d love to start my own business one day.”)
  • Travel plans (“I’ve always wanted to see Japan!”)
  • Life goals (“I hope to move to the countryside someday.”)
  • Simple wishes (“One day, I’d love to learn Italian.”)

Dreams open the door to positive, forward-looking conversations.

Why Talking About Dreams Works So Well

  • It’s Inspiring: People love talking about their hopes for the future.
  • It Builds Trust: Sharing dreams often creates a deeper, more personal bond.
  • It’s Positive: The focus is on possibilities and excitement—not problems.

How to Ask About Dreams – Formal, Semi-Formal, Casual

The way you bring up dreams depends on the situation. Here are ways to ask in different settings:

Follow-Up Questions

Once someone shares a goal or dream, encourage them with curiosity:

  • “What inspired that goal?”
  • “What would that look like for you?”
  • “Do you think you’ll take steps toward it soon?”

People often light up when you show genuine interest in their future.

Examples of Dreams-Related Topics

Even small dreams matter—not everyone dreams of being a CEO!

Sample Dialogue

Let’s see what a D for Dreams conversation looks like in different settings:

Formal (Business Setting)

You: “You’ve built such an impressive career. What’s the next step you’re hoping to take?”
Them: “I’d love to move into a leadership role within the next few years.”
You: “That’s exciting. What kind of team would you like to lead?”

Semi-Formal (Networking Event)

You: “So, any long-term goals or projects you’re excited about?”
Them: “Actually, I’ve been thinking about starting my own consulting business.”
You: “That sounds amazing! What area would you focus on?”

Casual (Chat with a Friend)

You: “If you could do anything in the next few years, what would it be?”
Them: “Honestly? I’d love to travel across South America.”
You: “That sounds incredible! Any specific places you’d want to see first?”

Why Dreams Conversations Matter

Talking about dreams can turn small talk into real talk. It shows:

  • You care about more than work or surface-level topics.
  • You support their ambitions.
  • You value their vision for the future.

These conversations stick with people—they remember someone who showed interest in their future.

Final Tip: Share Your Own Dreams

Dreams conversations work both ways. Once they share, open up about your own hopes:

  • “I’ve been thinking about writing a book one day.”
  • “I’d love to spend a year living in Spain.”

This balances the conversation and builds trust.

Your Next Small Talk Win: D for Dreams

Next time you’re chatting with someone, try asking about their future plans.
You might spark inspiration—or even find a shared goal!

Check Out the Rest of the FORD Method Small Talk Series:

What’s a dream you’ve been thinking about? Share it in the comments!

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