How to Choose the Right Examples for Your Job Interview. Job Interview Stories (Part 2)

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 In Part 1 of this series, we focused on clarity before confidence - why being clear about your role and value matters more than sounding impressive. If you prefer to listen rather than read, this topic is also discussed in the Business English Talks podcast, where we break down real interview answers and explain why some of them work better than others. In this article, we move to the next step: choosing the right examples. Even professionals with strong experience often struggle in interviews because they talk about the wrong situations - or they choose examples that are too complex, too vague, or not clearly connected to the question. This article will help you choose examples that are: easy to explain, relevant to the role, and effective in real interview situations. Along the way, you’ll find ready-to-use Business English phrases you can apply immediately. Why examples matter more than job titles Interviewers don’t hire job titles. They hire people who can solve problems and ...
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Master Small Talk with the FORD Method: A Guide for Non-Native English Speakers

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 Small talk can feel challenging, especially when you're navigating conversations in a second language. But what if there was a simple framework to help you start and maintain engaging conversations? Enter the FORD method—a conversational tool that makes small talk easy and enjoyable by focusing on four universal topics: Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams.



Let’s break it down:

1. F - Family

Talking about family is a great way to build rapport, as most people enjoy sharing about their loved ones. Questions about family show interest and can lead to personal and meaningful conversations.

Example Questions:

  • “Do you have any siblings?”
  • “Is your family from this area?”
  • “Do you spend much time with your family on weekends?”

Why It Works:
Family is a safe and relatable topic that can reveal common interests and experiences.

2. O - Occupation

Discussing someone's work is another reliable topic. Many people feel comfortable talking about their profession, challenges, or accomplishments.

Example Questions:

  • “What do you do for a living?”
  • “How did you get into that field?”
  • “What’s the most exciting part of your job?”

Why It Works:
Occupation is a natural topic for adults and offers opportunities to find shared professional interests or ask follow-up questions.

3. R - Recreation

Recreation refers to hobbies and leisure activities. This topic is fun and lighthearted, making it great for keeping the conversation enjoyable and relaxed.

Example Questions:

  • “What do you like to do for fun?”
  • “Do you enjoy any sports or creative hobbies?”
  • “Have you been watching any good movies or shows lately?”

Why It Works:
People love talking about their interests, and this topic allows you to connect over shared activities or learn about something new.

4. D - Dreams

Dreams are about aspirations and future goals. It’s a more personal topic, so it’s ideal once the conversation is flowing comfortably. Talking about dreams adds depth and shows genuine interest in the person.

Example Questions:

  • “What’s a place you’ve always wanted to visit?”
  • “Do you have any big plans for the future?”
  • “What’s something you’ve always wanted to try?”

Why It Works:
Dreams allow people to share their passions and long-term goals, creating a meaningful and memorable connection.

How to Use the FORD Method in Business English

The FORD method isn’t just for personal conversations—it’s also excellent for building relationships in professional settings. For example:

  • Networking Events: Ask about someone’s job (Occupation) and what they enjoy doing outside of work (Recreation).
  • Virtual Meetings: Start with a light question about hobbies or family to break the ice.
  • Business Dinners: Show interest in their dreams or aspirations to foster a deeper connection.

Practical Tips for Using the FORD Method

  1. Adapt Your Questions: Tailor your questions based on cultural norms and the context of the conversation.
  2. Listen Actively: Show genuine interest by asking follow-up questions.
  3. Practice in Advance: Prepare a few questions for each topic so you feel confident starting a conversation.
  4. Be Observant: Look for visual cues, like family photos or sports memorabilia, to guide your questions.

Action Step: Try It Today!

The next time you’re in a meeting, at a social event, or even chatting with a new acquaintance, use the FORD method to guide the conversation. You’ll find it easier to connect and keep the dialogue flowing.

🎧 Learn more conversation tips on our podcast!

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