How to Choose the Right Examples for Your Job Interview. Job Interview Stories (Part 2)

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 In Part 1 of this series, we focused on clarity before confidence - why being clear about your role and value matters more than sounding impressive. If you prefer to listen rather than read, this topic is also discussed in the Business English Talks podcast, where we break down real interview answers and explain why some of them work better than others. In this article, we move to the next step: choosing the right examples. Even professionals with strong experience often struggle in interviews because they talk about the wrong situations - or they choose examples that are too complex, too vague, or not clearly connected to the question. This article will help you choose examples that are: easy to explain, relevant to the role, and effective in real interview situations. Along the way, you’ll find ready-to-use Business English phrases you can apply immediately. Why examples matter more than job titles Interviewers don’t hire job titles. They hire people who can solve problems and ...
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Small Talk with the FORD Method: Exploring "Family" (F)

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 Small talk can feel awkward at times, but starting with the topic of family—part of the FORD method (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams)—is a warm and relatable way to spark meaningful conversations. Whether you’re networking, chatting with colleagues, or meeting someone new, asking about family is a great way to build rapport and keep the conversation flowing.

In this post, we’ll dive deeper into the "Family" aspect of the FORD method. You’ll learn new questions, phrases, and example dialogues to make your small talk more engaging and natural.



Why Talk About Family?

Family is a universal topic that most people can relate to. Asking thoughtful questions about family can create a friendly atmosphere and help the other person feel more comfortable. It’s a versatile topic that works well in both formal and casual settings, whether you’re at a business meeting or a casual event.

Engaging Questions About Family

Here are some creative and engaging family-related questions to guide your conversations. These are fresh and haven’t been featured in previous posts:

Formal Questions:

  • “Did your family inspire your career path?”
  • “Do you have any family traditions that are unique to you?”
  • “Have your family roots influenced where you live now?”

Semi-Formal Questions:

  • “What’s something your family does to celebrate holidays?”
  • “Do you come from a large family or a small one?”
  • “What’s a favorite memory from growing up in your family?”

Casual Questions:

  • “What’s the funniest thing your family has done together?”
  • “Does your family enjoy traveling or staying close to home?”
  • “What’s one thing your family always laughs about?”

These questions are versatile and can be tailored to the tone of the conversation.

Useful Phrases About Family

Not every conversation flows smoothly, so having a few phrases ready can help you steer the dialogue naturally:

  • “It’s fascinating how family shapes our stories. What’s your favorite family tradition?”
  • “Family dynamics can be so interesting—do you have any unique stories to share?”
  • “Hearing about different family traditions is always fun. Do you celebrate any in a special way?”

These phrases allow you to transition smoothly into a family-related discussion.

Example Dialogues

Let’s put these questions and phrases into practice with some example dialogues:

Formal Conversation

You: “Did your family inspire your career path?”
Colleague: “Yes, my father was an engineer, so I always admired his work.”
You: “That’s amazing. Did he encourage you to follow in his footsteps?”
Colleague: “He did, but he always emphasized finding my own passion.”
You: “That’s such valuable advice. He must be very proud of you.”

Semi-Formal Conversation

You: “What’s something your family does to celebrate holidays?”
Friend: “We have a big dinner and exchange funny homemade gifts.”
You: “Homemade gifts sound so fun! What’s the best one you’ve ever received?”
Friend: “A hand-knitted scarf from my mom. It’s not perfect, but I love it!”
You: “That’s so sweet. It’s the thought that counts, right?”

Casual Conversation

You: “What’s one thing your family always laughs about?”
Friend: “Oh, my dad’s attempts at cooking! He once burned water!”
You: “That’s hilarious! Did he give up cooking after that?”
Friend: “Not at all—he insists on trying, but we’ve learned to supervise!”
You: “That’s a story you’ll be telling for years.”

How to Use These Ideas Effectively

  • Be Genuine: Show real interest in their responses. People can tell when you’re just going through the motions.
  • Follow Up: Ask follow-up questions to keep the conversation going. For example, “That’s interesting! How did that tradition start?”
  • Match the Setting: Adapt your tone and questions to suit the situation, whether formal or casual.

Action Step

This week, try incorporating one of these questions into a conversation. For example, ask a colleague, “What’s a family tradition you look forward to every year?” and see how the dialogue unfolds. With a little practice, talking about family will feel natural and easy.

🎧 Discover more small talk tips on our podcast!
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