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When making small talk, knowing what to say can be tricky. That’s why the FORD Method is so helpful. It gives you four easy topics to talk about:
Today, we’re focusing on R for Recreation – talking about hobbies, interests, and what people enjoy in their free time.
Why Recreation Is a Great Topic for Small Talk
Recreation is often the easiest and most enjoyable part of the FORD method. Why?
Discussing recreation can transform a dull conversation into an engaging, friendly one.
The way you ask depends on the situation. Here are examples for different levels of formality:
Regardless of the formality, showing interest is key. Some easy follow-ups:
These questions keep the conversation flowing naturally.
Here are common areas people might mention and questions to dig deeper:
You don’t need to share their hobby—being curious is enough!
Let’s see how a conversation using R for Recreation might look in different settings:
You: “It’s been a busy few weeks. Do you get much time for hobbies outside work?”
Them: “I try to play tennis on weekends when I can.”
You: “That’s great! Have you played for a long time?”
Them: “Yes, since university. It helps me switch off from work.”
You: “That sounds perfect for balance. Do you follow professional tennis as well?”
You: “So, how do you usually relax after work?”
Them: “I’m a big fan of hiking. It’s my escape.”
You: “That’s awesome. Any favorite trails around here?”
Them: “Yeah, there’s a beautiful one just 30 minutes away.”
You: “I’ve been meaning to get outdoors more—would you recommend it for beginners?”
You: “Hey, what do you get up to on weekends?”
Them: “Mostly gaming, to be honest.”
You: “Nice! What are you playing right now?”
Them: “I’m into RPGs—currently obsessed with Elden Ring.”
You: “Oh, I’ve heard that’s amazing! Is it as hard as people say?”
Conversations about hobbies and interests often feel more relaxed and natural than work or family topics. They help you:
People remember how you made them feel—and talking about their favorite pastime is a guaranteed way to leave a good impression.
After they share, offer something about yourself. Even if it’s simple:
This makes the conversation mutual and engaging.
Next time you’re making small talk, try R for Recreation—you might discover a shared passion or even pick up a new hobby!
Check out the rest of the FORD Small Talk Series:
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